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Dating seeking circumcised felt stunned. Like the father, my ex-partner is Muslim and wished to have our sons circumcised according to his cultural and religious beliefs.

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Dating seeking circumcised The boys in the High Court case were a similar age to our sons, too — mine are now seven and five. I took the children to school. On returning home, I sat down to re-read the all-too-brief news report.

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Time passed and anger again cooled. In between visits they talk and laugh on Skype, exchange voice, emoticon and text messages. We each value their happiness and wellbeing, and want them to grow aware of their Turkish heritage and family. But Dating seeking circumcised do not feel free to build trust on behalf of my children that they seekinng not be circumcised given some opportunity for it to be done, in the UK Dating seeking circumcised elsewhere.

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He re-agreed on our original compromise, saying he did not want to hurt us. But trust is hard and slow to rebuild.